Seek Failure

To be successful, you have to seek out failure. Successful people fail a lot more than they succeed. Failure is where all the lessons are. This is for anything in your life, even at the gym, you’re seeking failure. This is what I train my clients every day at the studio: muscle failure (or success). You take your muscles to the point of failure because that’s where the growth is and that’s where you find strength. Stay tuned for the next blog post to learn more about the workout method that I train.

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Less is More

Ludwig Mies van der Rohe, the renowned architect and designer said it best: “Less is More”. Most of you will have heard of “new” minimalist movements, where people live with just the necessities and precious little else. Essentially, living this clutter-free lifestyle is a streamlined way to help you find purpose and be grateful for what you have, whilst giving you room to be creative. I’ll let you into a little secret, this “new” movement, isn’t new at all. In fact, the idea of designing your life, with a goal of simplicity, has been around for a long time.

Ludwig Mies van der Rohe was one of the greatest architects of the 21st century and also one of the directors of the Bauhaus School in Germany. The Bauhaus was founded by Walter Gropius in 1919 and in it’s 20 or so years of existence fostered the idea of modernism, which is a cultural movement stemming from the art of design and architecture. Its origins go back as early as the 1880s and designs from Gropius and the Bauhaus were, in their radically simplified form for the functionality and the idea that mass production was reconcilable with the individual artistic spirit. Innovative and practical designs in commonplace objects. A balance of beauty and purpose, if you will. If it weren’t for my husband, I wouldn’t know where to begin living the lifestyle that we do now. I can’t take any credit for our furniture or the set up of our living space. Every item and every aspect of our daily lives, we ask ourselves, “Will it serve us a purpose?”. He’s the one that introduced me to the Bauhaus movement and living a lifestyle that is clutter-free and purposeful. I have to say that it has been extremely helpful to my anxiety, the way I process and prioritise information and for my creative thinking and I’m much more grateful for what I have. Also, it’s so much easier to clean a house that isn’t full of unnecessary items. The few things we do have, we make sure they’re high quality and will add value over time. The furniture we have is mostly of the Bauhaus designs. If you look around our apartment, you’d notice that the only thing on the walls are 3 identical, beautifully designed white Braun clocks and my make-up mirror. These items serve a specific purpose. In our sitting room there are two identical Wassily Chairs (model B3) designed in 1925 by Marcel Breuer of the Bauhaus school. If you look at it, everything about it is very modern and so practical, yet the design is nearly 100 years old. It’s amazing to think about. My husband and I discuss and agree before purchasing anything but overall, since we buy quality over quantity, we save money in the long run and it’s a much more environmentally friendly way to live. Since we don’t have a ton of things, that means it’s much more practical living in a smaller space rather than a massive home which means cheaper living space and cheaper utility bills! We can save money on things that really matter to us like travelling and saving for future expenses. It could help release financial tension that families tend to be caught in nowadays. If I found myself living this lifestyle, anyone can! Start slowly by taking a full day of putting things you don’t use or find a purpose for in a pile. Go from room to room and look through EVERY item. Donate all the items you can to the nearest donation centre or to friends or family you know could use those items. If you hang on to things that you think you’re going to sell and you can’t sell it within two weeks, donate those as well. You’re helping the community while doing this too!! If you really want to change to this kind of lifestyle, this will be your first assignment. If you want freedom in your life, you have to have discipline. If it becomes difficult to let something go, just start saying to yourself, “Less is more.”

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My Weekly Menu

As a personal trainer, I get asked a lot of what my diet consists of and if it’s hard to stick to it. Healthy habits become your lifestyle if you really want it to be part of your life. I believe in creating healthy habits, not restrictions. For instance, if milk chocolate is your weakness, replace it with dark chocolate. It’s a healthier version and since its usually richer, you’re more than likely not going to indulge. Set a certain time for that piece of dark chocolate. I usually have a piece of dark chocolate with a cup of espresso in the late morning or after lunch. Before we begin talking about any more food, ask yourself how much water are you drinking per day? According to multiple studies, the magic number is 100 ounces a day. If you wake up at 6am and go to sleep at 10pm, that’s about 6.25 ounces every waking hour. We’ll discuss more about the importance in drinking plenty of water every day in a future blog post, but for now, let that be your homework and try sticking with it! Set an hourly reminder in your phone to drink water. When it comes to a weekly menu, keep it simple! Don’t overthink it. You want to have plenty of vegetables, lean protein, nuts and fruit and occasionally indulge in some carbs! Don’t beat yourself up for having a whole wheat bagel. Unless you’re diabetic, there’s no need to completely go carb free to have a healthy diet. The newest diet fad is the Keto diet. For the majority of the population, it’s probably not the best diet to follow because it does involve a lot of salty and fatty meats and a lot of dairy. There are studies that show that it helps people struggling with diabetes, epilepsy and nonalcoholic fatty liver disease so I’m not bashing the Keto diet, but I am saying that if its a fad diet, it’s probably not the best diet to follow. Also, follow diets that your doctor and nutritionist set for you.

Monday-Wednesday

  • Breakfast- 1 Medium Banana (usually on the go) & Oatmeal with Unsweetened Almond Milk, Peanut Butter, Cinnamon and Honey, Cup of Black Coffee

  • Lunch- Homemade Protein Box (inspired by Starbucks) with 2 Hard Boiled Eggs, 1 ounce of Cheese, Grapes, Apple Slices, 1 TBSP Peanut Butter.

  • Snack- Small Amount of Unsalted Almonds, Small Amount of Berries and a Piece of 85% Dark Chocolate with Espresso, Clementine Orange

  • Dinner- Mixed Green Salad with Roasted Bell Pepper, Avocado and Salmon (or Chicken Breast) with Lemon Juice as a Salad Dressing

Thursday-Sunday (Saturday Dinner is Dealer’s Choice. Go Ahead and Have That Pizza!)

  • Breakfast- Healthy Cereal (like Fiber One or Grape Nuts) Topped with Berries or Banana and Unsweetened Almond Milk, Cup of Black Coffee

  • Lunch- Veggie Box with Raw Veggies( Broccoli, Celery, Carrots, Cherry Tomatoes, Cucumber) with Hummus and 1 Apple with 1 TBSP Peanut Butter

  • Snack- Small Amount of Unsalted Almonds, Small Amount of Berries and a Piece of 85% Dark Chocolate with an espresso, Clementine Orange

  • Dinner- Roasted Veggies with Quinoa, Grilled Chicken and Avocado

The lunches and dinners are easy to meal prep. Highly recommend meal prepping as much as possible because it helps you stick with the meal plan because you’ve made it in advance. The oatmeal breakfasts could be made into overnight oats as well. Get creative with it! Maybe add some chia seeds, greek yogurt and blue berries. This is just a sample of what I usually do weekly because it seems to be the easiest. My husband and I do a weekly grocery shop and have a budget for our groceries that we set. Also, if you have a fitness routine, I recommend having at least 20 grams of protein (either bar or shake…nothing too sugary) soon after your workout.

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WELLNESS

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines wellness as “the quality or state of being in good health especially as an actively sought goal”. I truly believe that good health starts from within. You have to be consumed by it. It has to be intwined with every aspect of your daily life. That includes, not only fitness and nutrition, but your mind as well. A healthy mind and body starts with healthy habits. Being a personal trainer, I hear the excuse, “I don’t have time to have a healthy life. I’m too busy and always on the go.” Believe me, I know how busy people are nowadays. I have two full-time jobs, I’m a wife and mother and now I started a blog and I still have time to have a healthy lifestyle. Habits come from daily routines. So, really think about your daily routine. Start by looking at your morning routine. Do you get up everyday at the same time? Do you make your bed immediately and get into the shower? Do you have a shower routine? Etc… Break every minute down and write it down for a week. You’ll soon realise that you probably spend a lot of extra time in front of the T.V. or on your favourite social media account scrolling through for hours and hours. If you really want to start having a healthy lifestyle, you need to prioritise the things that are actually helping you to achieve your goals. Watching 3 hours of T.V. a day isn’t going to help you finish reading that book that you’ve been putting off for months and it’s certainly not going to help you get rid of those extra pounds you put on during the holidays. So, really dig deep within yourself and weed out the things in your life that are not contributing to making you happier and healthier.

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